30 day challenge: Five ways to win my heart

Happy Easter!

A 30 day blog challenge is circulating Tumblr and I've decided to participate! I'll answer a question or address a topic every day for thirty days --- and I'll try my best not to skip the silly and embarrassing ones. On that note:

Day 1: Five ways to win my heart

1. Witty banter. 

Favorite quote from this week's Office episode: 

"I love banter... I hate witty banter." 

Classic Kevin Malone.

2. Snail mail.

3. Buy me a nerf gun for Valentine's Day.

4. Care about something.

5. Get (act) excited about watching The Lion King.

Such an amazing movie. And soundtrack. Oh, the circle of life.

Happy love day

Two Valentine's Day-themed posts is a little much, but love is a good thing.  (And also it's 10pm, the Grammys are almost over, and I need to procrastinate just a little longer.)


I had a great weekend.  On Friday my mom and I chatted about life and love over lunch; she told me about her and my dad's first Valentine's Day as a married couple and we laughed.  On Saturday my dad and I drove up to visit my grandparents.  Grandmama made her amazing spaghetti - it's better than the real Italian stuff, I swear.  And Pop-Pop got out WWII- and Vietnam-era guns (I held a bazooka!) and we enjoyed peppermint tea and chocolate chip cookies.

This is a photo series of couples who've been married fifty years or longer.  It's been popping up in the blogosphere this week and it's beautiful.  It made me stop and think about how so many members of my family - parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins - model healthy, long-lasting, meaningful relationships.  In short, I'm really thankful for that.


I just opened my Valentine's gift from my parents (oops, I was supposed to wait) and it includes a Books-A-Million gift card.  I'm really thankful my family likes books, too.  


We've decided that tomorrow night's Valentine's Day dinner will consist of homemade lasagna and cupcakes (maybe a can of green beans, maybe not), chocolate, and, if Kibwe doesn't mind, "Gone With The Wind."  Classic.


I will also mention the boy we like to call Dave who is sound asleep in London as I type.  Public declarations of affection make me uncomfortable.  But if I may use understatements, I like this boy a whole lot and can't wait until he gets here in 17 days.


Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.


Amen.

Valentine's Day & pie shops

I'm slowly going through the photos on my cell phone and saving the better ones.  Here's a pretty Antigua shot.  (I WANT WARM WEATHER!)

Last week I saw the movie "Norma Rae" for the first time and loved it.  It was filmed right down the road from Auburn in Opelika.  Sometime soon I want to take a mini road trip and visit some of the old textile factories and neighborhoods.  


Shelley was talking to our friend about the movie and about Southern towns that've lost lots of people and charm since factories shut down, and our friend told her about Pie Lab in Greensboro, Alabama.

  http://www.nytimes.com/2010/10/10/magazine/10pielab-t.html?_r=1&pagewanted=1

Pie Lab is a creative restaurant, an artsy community development experiment started by recent college grads.  The graduates were part of a social change/design group called Project M.  I love one of the girl's comment about the brainstorming phase:  "We realized we couldn't solve global warming.  And we couldn't fix the plummeting economy.  Before pie came to us, we were kind of paralyzed."  (Quoted in NY Times article "Pie + Design = Change."  Another good piece from al.com:  "The Pies That Bind."


I want to take a mini road trip to the Pie Lab, too.  It sounds like a fun and tasty (and meaningful) place.  I like the idea of pie bringing people together.  


This weekend I have lots of reading to do - I'm trying to finish all my schoolwork by Sunday so I can cook and consume an epic Valentine's Day feast, guilt-free.  


Speaking of Valentine's Day, excuse me while I spend a brief moment on my soapbox:  nothing irks me more than moaning about "Single Awareness Day" being S.A.D and depressing.  I've celebrated twenty-one Valentine's Days in my short little life - all of them without a significant other - and I love the holiday!  Cards, rom coms, an excuse to eat chocolate, an excuse to go out for a nice meal (it probably helped that my parents gave Melissa and I gifts every year, too)... 


One time a boy gave me jewelry on February 14.  


It was pretty traumatic.  


We were in the fourth grade, I didn't know him well, my ears weren't pierced, my mom made me invite him to my birthday party at the skating rink (ah, the 90s) and I couldn't forget about the incident because family members asked me about this boy for weeks.  (Weeks!)

Flashback to 2007: the first group Valentine's Day dinner I organized.

To conclude, I hope everyone has a lovely, trauma-free Valentine's Day.  Rent a movie and cook yourself a steak or something.